I really wouldn’t give a flying fuck about 50 shades if I did not personally see a multitude of women talking about “I want a relationship like THAT” etc etc and having to explain to them
be safe breh.
I think that’s the real issue. Not that it was written as a how to guide (which it wasn’t) but that a lot of people are taking it as a how to guide to bdsm which isn’t a good look.
THIS ! This is exactly why i hate the book and movie. People are seeing this and thinking “Whoa! Thats easy and kinda dangerous I think I like it now let me throw this flogger at your back and see what happens” BDSM is more than sex, more than play. BDSM relationships and interactions are a much more serious and much more intense than vanilla relationships. Educate yourself, explore, find people in your local community, go to classes. munches and talk talk talk., research please before you decide to start “hitting each other with stuff.” I’m 2 almost three years into my submission and BDSM journey. It’s a constant learning experince.
And I want to savor every minute.
Being punched on your sides while being fucked doggy style is some A+ shit. just saying try it and come back to me lol